Embracing New Beginnings: The Advantages of Starting Over.

I started an e-commerce business during and after the lockdown and later added a personal shopping business. Because I’ve been focusing on these 2 businesses, I have stopped writing and using my personal website.  As a result, I forgot to renew the hosting plan for my website last year.

This year, I decided to go back to speaking training and writing blog posts. I soon realized that everything was gone and that I had to rebuild my website all over again. It was a bit tough for me knowing it would take a lot of time and money to do it.

I began the work of rebuilding with some expert help to expedite the process. The more I work on my site the more I appreciate the need to start over. Building my website came with some challenges, both personal and technical, and as a result, what I thought would take a few weeks, took months. In the end, I was glad for the do over and my site looked much better.

You see, I have been working on myself to become the best version of myself and also working on having a better and deeper relationship with the Lord. This version of me is happier, more confident, more patient, and more intentional about living out my purpose and making a difference in this world in my own little way.

The last few years were filled with loss, grief, and heartbreaks, it was a very challenging time of my life.  I was upset with God for some time because I felt he didn’t love me enough to answer my prayers.

Today, I’m in a better place, with a  new appreciation for life and its blessings. And though, I still have some unanswered prayers, I am grateful to God for the ones he answered especially the ones I  didn’t even pray for.

We all go through a period in life where we have to start over, whether, through the loss of a loved one, a job, or a career, we made bad choices, loss of business,  investment, divorce, or loss of a relationship.

Starting over is not easy, but instead of looking back with regret and feeling hurt and sad all the time, we should move forward with hope and optimism.

It is ok to mourn our loss and take time to grieve but we should not stay in the place of sadness where we end up becoming depressed all the time. Going through a period of sadness is ok, as long as we do not stay in that dark place forever. It is important that we seek help and also lean on our friends, family, and loved ones to get through the dark times.

For instance, just because we started a business and it failed shouldn’t stop us from trying again if we know we are called to be in business. We should learn from our mistakes and try again. Just because your relationship didn’t work out or your marriage ended in divorce does not mean you should give up on marriage or love.  Take time to heal and then give love another chance.

Once we have life, we have another chance to grow and become better and go after the things that we want. Whether it’s changing careers, moving to a new city, or starting a new relationship, new beginnings offer us the opportunity to grow, learn, and create a better future for ourselves.

”Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward”

C.S Lewis

So, why should we embrace new beginnings? What advantages do they bring? Let’s explore a few:

1. Fresh Perspective

Starting over allows us to gain a fresh perspective on life. It gives us the chance to step back, reevaluate our goals, and make necessary adjustments. When we’re stuck in a routine, it’s easy to become complacent and lose sight of what truly matters. Embracing new beginnings allows us to break free from the monotony and see things from a different angle.

2. Personal Growth

Starting over is a catalyst for personal growth. It pushes us out of our comfort zones and forces us to adapt to new situations. Whether it’s learning new skills, facing challenges head-on, or stepping into unfamiliar territory, new beginnings provide us with valuable opportunities for self-improvement. By embracing change, we can become stronger and more resilient individuals.

3. Reinvention

New beginnings allow us to reinvent ourselves. They provide a blank canvas to paint the life we’ve always dreamed of. Whether it’s pursuing a new career path, adopting a healthier lifestyle, or cultivating new hobbies, starting over gives us the chance to redefine who we are and what we want out of life. It’s an opportunity to shed old habits and create new and positive ones.

4. Increased Resilience

Starting over requires courage and resilience. It’s not always easy to leave behind what’s familiar and venture into the unknown. However, by embracing new beginnings, we develop resilience and the ability to bounce back from setbacks. Each new chapter we embark on strengthens our ability to adapt, overcome challenges, and ultimately thrive.

5. New Opportunities

New beginnings bring new opportunities. They open doors, that were once closed and present us with chances for success, happiness, and fulfillment. By starting over, we expose ourselves to a world of possibilities we may have never encountered otherwise. Embracing new beginnings allows us to seize these opportunities and create a life that aligns with our true desires.

Conclusion

So, the next time you find yourself at a crossroads don’t be afraid to embrace a fresh start. See it as an opportunity for growth, reinvention, and new adventures. Remember that every ending is a new beginning, and with each new beginning comes the chance to create a life that brings you joy and fulfillment.

You can never find the beauty of starting over until you try. Let go of the burdens and worries of yesterday and give today a chance.